Fr. Nouwen and Rembrandt’s ‘The Return of the Prodigal Son’

My mom sent me a copy of Nouwen’s The Return of the Prodigal Son: A Story of Homecoming, in which he reflects upon Rembrandt’s masterpiece

Rembrandt's The Return of the Prodigal Son

and the parable (Luke 15: 11-32).

I heartily recommend it.

A friend and I happened to be discussing, as C.S. Lewis put it, The Problem of Pain as a serious objection to the Christian religion this past weekend.

Nouwen addresses theodicy from the perspective of the father:

Oh, how much would he have liked to talk to them, to warn them against the many dangers they were facing, and to convince them that at home can be found everything that they search for elsewhere. How much would he have liked to pull them back with his fatherly authority and hold them close to himself so that they would not get hurt.

But his love is too great to do any of that. It cannot force, constrain, push, or pull. It offers the freedom to reject that love or to love in return. It is precisely the immensity of that divine love that is the source of the divine suffering. God, creator of heaven and earth, has chosen to be, first and foremost, a Father.

As Father, he wants his children to be free, free to love. That freedom includes the possibility of their leaving home, going to a “distant country,” and losing everything. The Father’s heart knows all the pain that will come from that choice, but his love makes him powerless to prevent it. As Father, he desires that those who stay at home enjoy his presence and experience his affection. But here again, he wants only to offer a love that can be freely received. He suffers beyond telling when his children honor him only with lip service, while their hearts are far from him. He knows their “deceitful tongues” and “disloyal hearts,” but he cannot make them love him without losing his true fatherhood.

As Father, the only true authority he claims for himself is the authority of compassion. That authority comes from letting the sins of his children pierce his heart. There is no lust, greed, anger, resentment, jealousy, or vengeance in his lost children that has not caused immense grief to his heart. The grief is so deep because the heart is so pure. From the deep inner place where love embraces all human grief, the Father reaches out to his children. The touch of his hands, radiating inner light, seeks only to heal.

Here is the God I want to believe in: a Father who, from the beginning of creation, has stretched out his arms in merciful blessing, never forcing himself on anyone, but always waiting; never letting his arms drop down in despair, but always hoping that his children will return so that he can speak words of love to them and let his tired arms rest on their shoulders. His only desire is to bless.

Fr. Henri J.M. Nouwen – The Return of the Prodigal Son: A Story of Homecoming

May we learn to allow him to bless us.


Soo… New Deacons, are you ready to sing the Exsultet this Easter?

The Praeconium, or commonly, the Exsultet, is that hymn of praise sung before the Paschal candle. In it we give praise and thanks to God for the work of salvation throughout history. In many parishes it is sung by a lector, but is most properly sung by the Deacon. Here are some handy resources if you feel called to take up the task, or if you simply are called to do so by your pastor!

Father Moleski has a collection of references at http://moleski.net/exultet/index.htm

The Exsultet In English
http://www.icelweb.org/musicfolder/openpdf.php?file=ExsultetLong.pdf
http://www.npm.org/Chants/assets/icel/exsultet.pdf”
From npm.org – [podcast]http://www.npm.org/Chants/assets/exsultet.mp3[/podcast]
From musicasacra.com – [podcast]http://musicasacra.com/media/exsultet.mp3[/podcast]

El Pregón Pascual En Español
http://www.musicaliturgica.com/textoscantados/downloads/pregonpascual.pdf
From musicaliturgia.com – [podcast]http://www.musicaliturgica.com/textoscantados/downloads/pregonpascualmp3.mp3[/podcast]

An alternate editing for Ordained vs Non-Ordained Cantors
http://cantateop.org/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/Pregon-Pascual-Ordained.pdf
http://cantateop.org/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/Pregon-Pascual-Nonordained.pdf


Cardinal Deacon Ercole Consalvi and Ecclesiadicy

Deacon LeRoy frequently points out the ecclesiadicy of the Church as evidence of her divine authorship. Another Leroy, Dr. Leroy Huizenga, presents an article on exactly this topic in today’s On The Square over at First Things.

One of the things I don’t recall Deacon LeRoy mentioning is the attribution of the statement to Napoleon by Cardinal Ercole Consalvi that “If in 1800 years we clergy have failed to destroy the church, do you really think that you’ll be able to do it?” A commenter on the article brought the good Cardinal Consalvi to my attention. What an extraordinary individual! What an extraordinary Cardinal Deacon, even!


Episcopal Bishop Arthur Lichtenberger’s words of Lenten advice

Episcopal Bishop Arthur Lichtenberger’s words of Lenten advice:

  • Fast from criticism, and feast on praise.
  • Fast from self-pity, and feast on joy.
  • Fast from ill-temper, and feast on peace.
  • Fast from resentment, and feast on contentment.
  • Fast from jealousy, and feast on love.
  • Fast from pride, and feast on humility.
  • Fast from selfishness, and feast on service.
  • Fast from fear, and feast on faith.

Probably his, at least…

I can’t find a credible original source for this, but he seems the most-blamed, and those that present it as anonymous tend to have a vested interest in avoiding giving credit to either a
bishop
or to an Episcopal bishop.


My Dream Company

I came across this while surfing the web at lunchtime, and realized I wrote it back in 2004. It’s bizarre that my current employer fulfills so many of these qualities, and where they don’t, I’d probably revise the quality if I were to rewrite this today. I didn’t even choose to work here, we got bought and traded and sold until I found myself here one day. I couldn’t have planned it this way if I made it a conscious aim, but apparently God could.

So, a blast from the past…

I suppose the first comment that has to be made is that the title of this commentary is not “My Dream Job”; it is “My Dream Company”. I know that there are some fortunate people out there who don’t really care much where they work as long as their job or their team “doesn’t suck”. There are even some truly blessed individuals who have clearly separated their work life and their real life and can be content even if their job does “suck”. I’m not one of those people. My role is important to me, and my team is very important, but there has to be a balance between my satisfaction with my role, my team, and the organization in which we operate. One of the most difficult things I’ve ever done was to leave an interesting job with an amazing team because the company I loved had lost too much of its soul. And that is the core attribute of my dream company: it has a soul.
Companies with a soul seem to posses a number of properties. I am certain that I have done a poor job of categorizing these properties, and I’m sure that given time they could be distilled, and that someone wiser than I has probably done so and made millions on their book, but these are my thoughts, overlapping, contradictory, and naïve as they may be. This is my intuitive first stab at what my dream company should look like:

  1. Balanced between generating revenue and ‘softer’ values. In Built to Last, Collins and Porras identify 18 companies between 1926 and 1990 that achieved success significantly beyond the general market. Their research shows that those companies had a strong core ideology and that maximizing shareholder value was not the dominant motivator for those companies. Making money was only one of the objectives in these companies. Generating revenue as an organization is important, just as earning an income for an individual is important, but wealth doesn’t make an organization successful any more than it does an individual.
  2. Employee centric, not customer centric. Crazy? I don’t think so. Organizations don’t take care of people, people take care of people. Companies don’t take care of customers, employees of companies do. Ideas, products, markets, and plans are all good and necessary, but my dream company recognizes that excellent people are the key to lasting success. In my dream company, the leadership team is focused on taking care of the employee so that the employee can focus on taking care of the customer. This, in turn, engenders customer loyalty, and those customers take care of the organization. The customer isn’t lost in this process, but found. When employees are customer focused, and leadership is employee focused, the concerns of the customer reach the ears of the leadership frequently and effectively.
  3. Demanding, but merciful. Hire and retain excellence; if a team member is not excellent, release them so that they can be content with mediocrity somewhere else. In my dream company, everyone is expected to be excellent. That doesn’t mean everyone is the Chief Architect of All Things, it means that if you’re a customer support representative, you’re excellent at it, if you’re an administrative assistant, you’re excellent, if you’re responsible for facilities maintenance, you’re excellent. It also means that if you’re a junior member of a team, you’re excellent at learning and applying information. It doesn’t mean that you’re perfect or that you’ve realized all of your potential, and it doesn’t mean that you’re entitled to be unkind to anyone or to an overly inflated view of your self. High standards are critical, and excellence should be a requirement, but when a teammate stumbles, the team accepts their mistake and helps them back on their feet because the team recognizes that this excellent individual has made an error just like we all do, and teamwork means helping one another over obstacles and through challenges. This encourages the individual to be courageous and take risks, and that is where real excellence is found.
  4. Transparent and having integrity. From the broad scale, where business operations are transparent to employees, the public, and shareholders, to the narrow, where salary data is public information, transparency is essential in my dream company. Decisions have an owner who isn’t afraid to stand by them. In my dream company, people mean what they say, and say what they mean.
  5. Far-sighted. Yes, there needs to be due consideration for paying the bills this month (especially when you’re a young company) but even then, there needs to be thought given to next month, next quarter, next year, and beyond. My dream company has a destination, and while it isn’t afraid to seize an opportunity, it also isn’t afraid to pass one up that doesn’t mesh well with long-term goals.
  6. Part of a community. This is perhaps summed up best by Peter Drucker, who said “Organizations have a responsibility to try to find an approach to basic social problems which fit their competence and which, indeed, makes the social problem into an opportunity for the organization.” In my dream company, this isn’t just a lovely concept; it is a part of every-day life. Employees and leadership are encouraged to contribute several hours a week of “work” time doing community service, and outstanding civic performance is recognized within the company. My dream company will contribute a portion of their profits to worthy causes. My dream company is also part of the local business community and an active participant in the market community by participating in standards bodies, user groups, professional conferences, etc.
  7. Motivated by relationships, not transactions. Even the most transactional business can and should build strong customer relationships. My dream company will not only build relationships with its customers, it will foster relationships between customers. This applies to the company’s attitude towards employees too.
  8. A responsible citizen. Encourage employees to participate in the political process and to support worthy causes with time (time off) and money (matching funds). Respect the environment, and strive for balance, diversity, and equality in relationships within and without the organization.
  9. Globally aware. Pursue international trade and encourage globalization within the target market. Pursue international production where appropriate, but do so with a consciousness of the impact to the local community and to the sense of community within the organization.
  10. Fun and Rewarding. Work should have an element of fun in it whenever possible, and be rewarding personally and professionally.