Am I willing to hear good news? – Fourth Sunday of Advent A

As I read through the readings for this fourth Sunday of Advent, I am struck by the realization that I don’t want to write about this. I already know and believe that a maiden (and virgin as supported by cultural and historical context, tradition, scripture, etc.) gave birth to a child who is the son of God, and the fulfillment of prophecy. Nobody’s reading this but me, and I have no specific obligation in this context to counsel the doubtful or instruct the ignorant on this matter. Besides, it’s good news, but it’s old news.

Maybe I’m a bit like Ahaz – his mind was already set on a course of action, and he didn’t want to hear anything different from the Lord. I, likewise, am eager to write about something else today, despite a commitment to reflect upon each week’s readings and to hold myself accountable to this commitment by publishing my reflections at noon each Friday.

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Leadership Lessons in the Luminous Mysteries – Baptism in the Jordan

More and more, I struggle with the fact that it’s hard to lead people. Measuring and managing performance, the tactical stuff, that’s something I can do, but really leading? That’s something I have to be… and it’s hard.

I’m blessed to be surrounded by thoughtful people who also want to grow, and to have an employer that encourages me to interact with leadership coaches and invest time in becoming a better leader. The other day, my fellow manager, Tracy, and I were discussing this challenge. How do we become more inspirational leaders? Not just effective managers, but transformational leaders.

I’ve been fascinated for over a decade with the lessons that Jesus offers to leaders, whether believers, or just people of good will who are open to good advice. I’ve also established a pretty regular habit of praying with the rosary on the way to work. Usually, it’s mostly a matter of keeping all ten of my fingers on the steering wheel when people are driving like jerks, or focused upon some concern for my family, but I’ve recently begun praying more often for my workmates.

This morning, I thought back to Jesus as a Level 5 leader, and focused my prayer intention upon my own growth as a leader, and my desire to learn how to inspire others at work, at home, and in civic organizations. Realizing it was Thursday, I got rolling on the Luminous Mysteries, and was blown away.

These mysteries focus upon the public life and ministry of Jesus. Catholic or not, Christian or not, a person of faith or not, Jesus has something to teach us as leaders, and these topics of meditation offer more than food for thought.

So, without further ado – here’s the first mystery. I’ll commit to publishing one of these each Thursday at 3 for the next several weeks as I continue meditating upon how Jesus’s ministry as reflected in the Luminous mysteries applies to my role and growth as a leader.

The Baptism in the Jordan

The story, for those unfamiliar: John the Baptist is a fire and brimstone preacher going around telling people they’re doomed unless they repent of their evil and hypocritical ways. He calls on people, mostly religious leaders, to change their attitudes and behaviors, and to express their repentance with a ritual washing known as baptism. Jesus, John’s slightly younger cousin, comes along. John identifies him as the long-awaited messiah. Jesus demands John baptize him, and John awkwardly complies. Once the ritual washing is complete, there’s a voice from heaven indicating that Jesus is the well-loved and pleasing son of God.

Not rejecting what came before

Many new managers, or leaders new to a role or organization take the easy way out. They draw contrasts between what went before, and what they promise. Jesus comes along, the promised messiah, and not only does he not reject John the Baptist and his ministry calling for repentance, but he endorses it, by submitting himself to it, even though his own style is notably different.

John, likewise, demonstrates one of the qualities of a Level 5 leader. He does not cling to his position, but makes way for his successor, and encourages his followers to do the same. He not only welcomes Jesus, but he identifies himself as one who must diminish in order for Jesus to increase. He sends his disciples to Jesus to see for themselves, and encourages them to ask questions.

As I prepare to move on to a new role, how can I empower my successor to build upon the foundation I’ve laid, and preemptively support their efforts to make improvements upon it? How can I build upon the foundation my predecessors laid, rather than tear down their work or their person? What’s good there that I can reinforce?

Once I am established in my role, can I take responsibility for a mess I may have inherited, and focus on solving the problems, rather than assigning blame? If I do so, will it inspire my team to have a similar attitude and focus?

Example of Repentance

Theologically, Jesus had no need of repentance, but he submitted himself to a baptism of repentance for conversion and the forgiveness of sins. There are various mystical and theological opinions as to why he chose to do this, but there is near-universal agreement that at least a secondary purpose of his action was to provide an example for his followers.

A few years back, inspired by a proverb on feast and fasting for Lent, I gave up “defending myself” as a Lenten discipline. It was astonishingly difficult. I speak up in my own defense during nearly every conversation. I’ve made a (only slightly successful) effort ever since that time to carefully weigh whether or not it is necessary to clarify or defend my position. Most of the time it isn’t necessary… but I do anyway.

Is it more important that I’m right, or that I set a good example of how to behave when I’m (perceived to be) wrong? Can I inspire my team to fail-forward by setting an example of recognizing and admitting mistakes early? Can I encourage them to hold themselves and one another accountable by submitting to the same?

Humility

Ultimately, the baptism in the Jordan presents a lesson on humility. At this occasion, Jesus establishes a pattern in which he neither tears down his forerunners, nor speaks in his own defense. He positively affirms by example the value of admitting error and making a firm resolution to amend one’s course, even at the risk of inaccurately appearing to have erred himself. Modern leadership experts (check out the links… I’m not making this up) have repeatedly confirmed that humility is a key to not only effective leadership, but confident, empowering, engaging, and inspiring leadership. That’s what I want, so this is where I need to grow.

Cardinal Merry del Val describes humility in a beautiful litany of prayerful intentions that can be applied directly or adapted easily to a non-religious set of personal goals and intentions for someone wishing to grow in humility:

O Jesus! meek and humble of heart, Hear me.
From the desire of being esteemed,

Deliver me, Jesus.

 

From the desire of being loved…
From the desire of being extolled …
From the desire of being honored …
From the desire of being praised …
From the desire of being preferred to others…
From the desire of being consulted …
From the desire of being approved …
From the fear of being humiliated …
From the fear of being despised…
From the fear of suffering rebukes …
From the fear of being calumniated …
From the fear of being forgotten …
From the fear of being ridiculed …
From the fear of being wronged …
From the fear of being suspected …

 

That others may be loved more than I,
Jesus, grant me the grace to desire it.

 

That others may be esteemed more than I …
That, in the opinion of the world, others may increase and I may decrease …
That others may be chosen and I set aside …
That others may be praised and I unnoticed …
That others may be preferred to me in everything…
That others may become holier than I,
provided that I may become as holy as I should…

 


Waiting Joyfully – Third Sunday of Advent (A)

It is easy for me to fall into a habit of complaining, or of waiting impatiently, and to somehow imagine that today’s sufferings, my sufferings, are the greatest of all sufferings.

Perhaps they are, although I don’t see any of us yet who are, like John, imprisoned for speaking up for marriage. Even when that day comes again, I’m willing to bet there’s someone who’s had it worse.

It’s not about comparative badness, though, where the best I can say is that at least it’s not the worst it’s ever been.

This third Sunday of Advent, Gaudete Sunday, reminds me that I ame to wait joyfully.

Isaiah and the psalmist promise that the coming messiah will bring to each the thing they need and desire most, and Jesus says “Look! I’m doing it now!”

Am I blind? I am promised sight.

Am I deaf? I am promised hearing.

Am I lame? I will leap.

Am I mute? I will sing.

Am I oppressed? Justice.

Hungry? Food.

Bowed down? Uplifted.

Just? Love.

A stranger alone? Protection.

Unable to provide for myself? Sustenance.

A prisoner? Freedom.

Poor? Good news.

Whatever it is we need and desire most, that’s what the coming of the savior brings. It’s better than we dream, and better even than the promise; nobody ever promised lepers would be cleansed or the dead raised, but they were.

It’s hard to wait.

It’s harder to wait patiently and without complaint.

It’s even harder to wait with joy.

Thankfully, our waiting is easier because the promised gifts are already ours, in various forms, and to varying degrees.

Some are spiritually present, such as the food for our hungry soul we receive the Eucharist.

Some are intellectually present, such as having our blindness lifted so that we see and understand things in new ways.

Some are emotionally present, such as being cured of our brokenness, addictions, or depression so that we can leap and dance and sing again.

We don’t have them all in fullness yet, but we have more than a taste.

Scholars have argued from almost the moment Christian scholars existed about why John sends his disciples to ask if he’s the one who is to come.

Perhaps he was hoping to cash in on that promise of freedom for the prisoner.

Perhaps he was perplexed that the promises were not all fulfilled in the way he expected.

Perhaps he needed some consolation as he went through the darkness of being imprisoned for speaking out to say marriage is what marriage always was.

Perhaps John wanted his disciples to see and believe what he saw and believed, so they could hope in the one in whom he placed his hope. I think I lean towards this last option, along with Saints Jerome, Hilary and Ambrose.

Whatever his intentions, John sent his disciples to see Jesus, and they came away believing.

Like John, I am called to help others see Jesus so they can come away believing.

We receive these gifts, and they should help us to wait joyfully, but we are called not only to receive them, but, as the body of Christ,  to distribute them.

We are called to help others know the blessing of receiving and recognizing these gifts already present as we wait with joyful patience for the day we’ll receive them all in fullest measure.

This Advent, I want to be more sensitive to the needs of those around me, and be a “little Christ” by showing kindness in meeting those needs.

 


I Hope So – Second Sunday of Advent

The readings for this second Sunday of Advent presents me with a timely reminder of how important it is that I grow in the virtue of hope.

Isaiah describes a stump, not the tree, of Jesse. God promised a descendant of David would reign forever, and that promise seemed to have failed. The tree of Jesse was cut down when the Davidic lineage was cut off and the heirs killed or carried away captive. No clear path remained to offer a reasonable hope that the kingdom could be restored. To be quite frank, there was no reason for hope.

And that is exactly why hope is a virtue.

There’s little virtue in hope when the stars are aligned and circumstances render inevitable the object of our hope.

It is when the tree is chopped down, and we have every reason for discouragement and even to despair that hope becomes clearly virtuous.

This hope is the helmet of our salvation, offering protection for our mind and thoughts when we are assaulted by doubts and fears. It allows us to rejoice and be patient in tribulation. The Catechism teaches us that the virtue of hope “keeps man from discouragement; it sustains him during times of abandonment.” (CCC 1818)

Hope is not only internal, self-centered, and protective, however. The Catechism continues… “it opens up his heart in expectation of eternal beatitude. Buoyed up by hope, he is preserved from selfishness and led to the happiness that flows from charity.”

This gift of hope that causes us to desire the kingdom of heaven and eternal life as our ultimate happiness makes us better neighbors by opening our hearts, and preserving us from selfishness.

Jesus speaks of wheat and chaff.

People who don’t know anything about grain sometimes get confused about this separation of the wheat from the chaff, thinking that surely they are wheat, and others must be the chaff, and that the wheat and chaff are related to one another the same way as fruitful and unfruitful trees.

When Jesus speaks of wheat and chaff, he is not primarily addressing different type of people, however, but different parts of the fruit of one plant.

The chaff is the dry, scaly protective covering over the tender kernel of wheat. It’s the boll around the cotton. Perhaps it is good to light a fire, or as part of cotton burr compost if your stripper is older or broken, but it is only in the way when it comes to the harvest.

I need to be purified by this hope, preserved from selfishness, and led to the happiness that flows from charity. I need to have my hard, dry scaly protective covering removed, so that the Lord can make use of my fruitfulness.

I don’t have to.

I can refuse to risk hope, staying closed to others, and keeping my hard, dry, protective covering.

It’s safe. I’m safe.

But the cost of doing so is that the good things God’s growing in me, my fruit, is inaccessible.

It is hard to imagine a world in which there is both justice AND peace, and where the predator/victim relationship is exchanged for something entirely peaceful, not just reversed so that lambs gnaw on wolf bones.

It is difficult to contemplate the possibility that we might learn to think in harmony and glorify God together. Not monotony, mind you, but harmony.

Do we even dare to dream of a world where we are open and welcoming, and don’t merely tolerate one another even to those who we might perceive as our enemies?

Am I courageous enough to allow God to open me up to my neighbor?

I hope so.


Actively preparing for Christ’s coming – 1st Sunday of Advent

Jesus is coming soon.

When I was a child and a young man, I heard this over and over. From the early 80’s, when I first began to pay attention, I heard various pseudo-scholars prophesy and attempt to explain how Jesus would be here by 1992, or 2000, but certainly not later than 2003, and then everything would change, because Jesus would be king of the world.

As a child and a young man, unconsciously overwhelmed by the burden of growing up and of the tribulation to come, and with a young man’s tendency towards laziness, these apocalyptic prophecies had an unintended consequence.

I wasn’t like the Romans Paul addresses, drunk and licentious, but I was like those Jesus describes in the Gospel readings for this first Sunday of Advent. I was eating and drinking and going to school and to work, just getting through life while I waited for his return. I was pretty sure that since I wasn’t like those people in Romans, he would have mercy upon me, and I’d probably be ok when he finally showed up, so I didn’t take my spiritual life all that seriously, either.

Somehow, I decided that since Jesus is coming soon, I didn’t need to plan for my future, or set and work towards goals. Jesus is coming soon, although we don’t know when, so what’s the point of working towards anything, since soon none of it will matter anyway?

But it does matter, and we are called not to wait passively, but to actively watch and prepare to greet him. Advent is pointless, if we don’t use it to prepare for Christ’s coming, and Christmas is worthless (or at least worth less) if we don’t use it to welcome the Christ.

Isaiah tells us (Isaiah 2) that the Lord will judge and impose terms on the nations, but it is still up to the people to beat their own swords into those plowshares, to put plow to earth, then plant, tend, and harvest.

The psalmist points out that the pilgrim must go up to the city God established, and upon arriving, give thanks and pray for the peace and good of the city. (Psalm 122)

Paul told the Romans (Romans 13) to wake up, and not just set aside the excesses of sin, but throw off darkness and take up light. He calls us to actively participate in being transformed to be like Christ.

Jesus himself told us (Matthew 24:37-44) to stay awake and alert, and prepare for his return. He tells us that to be saved, we do not need to meet any special conditions, or to be in a special position in life: we simply have to be faithful to the Lord in the middle of ordinary everyday affairs. It is in the context of these ordinary affairs of life — business, farmwork, housework, school, play, worship, etc. – that God calls us, and that we respond. This life is where our eternal happiness or eternal punishment is decided. (Navarre commentary Matthew 24:40)

Children obey your parents, so that if Jesus comes back while you’re a child, he can catch you doing something good.

Young people, neglect neither your earthly life, nor your spiritual life, so that you are prepared for his coming any time, whether it is today, for us all, or for you alone, at the end of a long life.

My friends, hold me and one another accountable to being faithful to the Lord in our everyday lives, and for helping our children and grandchildren learn to do the same.

Elders, thank you for your witness, and for showing us how to fall and get up again. Please continue to teach us how to give thanks, and please pray for our eternal peace and for our earthly good.

We don’t know when the Lord will return in glory, or come at our own death to escort us to our eternal destination, but we do know that we are called to wait actively, preparing to greet him joyfully when he comes.